The fledge has started at our house, and I have mixed feelings about it. For now it is baby steps, but it is definitely happening. Last week I traded in my gas guzzling SUV because I no longer needed a giant car to transport kiddos. My oldest has been driving for almost 2 years now, … Continue reading The start of the fledge →

Yesterday I shared my daughter's first day of work. You might wonder why I would share something like that. I did because 1) I was proud of her for getting not one, but two jobs completely on her own 2) she signed up for a double shift her first day and 3) she started working … Continue reading The Firsts I’m allowed to document →

I feel like I write this blog post every year. I love my little family, and they love me every day, not just on Mother's Day. But every year for the past 6 years, Mother's Day means the Wednesday after Mother's Day is near. That is the day I watched my mom die in the … Continue reading When Mother’s Day is hard →

Slowly our world is opening back up. Well, for our pandemic puppies, it is actually opening up for the first time. They have been going to doggie school twice a week for a month now. Appa D has been content to sit by the playground gate and just watch the other dogs play. Apparently this … Continue reading Getting back out there →

Last weekend I was in a major funk. I just could not shake it. Normally I can exercise, do some self-talk, dig in the dirt, and I can reset. But not this time. I was bored, sad, anxious all rolled into one. And last week a friend's dad died from COVID. An extra F--k you … Continue reading A tiny bit hopeful →

Last night I used our salad greens from one of our hydroponic gardens to make a taco salad. I usually make it vegetarian style like I used to get at Elmo's, but the husband asked me to kick it up a notch, so I added some ground turkey, rice, salsa, jalapenos and whole grain chips. … Continue reading Memories from Elmo’s →

My running buddy and I stopped our Sunday run/walks that we termed our church last March. This was especially hard because we had attended our church since our 17 yr olds were in Kindergarten. We now connect once or twice a week over the phone for virtual happy hour and/or teletherapy. I shared this week … Continue reading The Groundhog Year →

It has been a cold, rainy winter. We had a stretch of 5 consecutive days of rain last week, and if I am being honest, I was not doing well without my daily dose of vitamin D. We have had 2 days of sunny weather, and I took full advantage of these days. Why you … Continue reading Needing outside time →

This morning a memory from 3 years ago showed up on my Facebook page. It was a t-shirt that reads "in wine there is wisdom, in beer there is strength, in water there is bacteria." It was from one of our favorite restaurants in Carrboro. Sadly, they closed early in the pandemic. The t-shirt brought … Continue reading Missing Tyler’s →

For the past 2 months I have been volunteering with a small non profit. My role was to help them relaunch a curriculum teaching girls entrepreneurship skills. I was having a blast going through the pilot data, interviewing people, and helping tease the curriculum into 2 parts (a 101 version and 201 version). The super … Continue reading When volunteering is no longer fun →