A friend recommended the book It's Okay to Laugh by, Nora McInerny Purmort. One of the chapters is a collection of reasons she married her husband. The chapter starts with "marry someone who...." Totally stealing this idea, so thanks in advance Nora! Marry someone who loves you so much, he drags you kicking and screaming … Continue reading Marry someone who… →

I have been super busy lately, which has been great, but I have missed writing in this space. Well, this week has given me A LOT to think about, process, and write about. I need to be better about writing about my feelings. It truly is my therapy. And therapy should happen regularly. First, a … Continue reading So many thoughts →

Last week I wrote about getting "unstuck." Basically figuring out how to give my brain more to do in our totally chaotic world. Here are some developments that are helping TREMENDOUSLY! I am going back to limiting my news intake. Watching Airforce One take off from Kabul with people literally hanging on as it took … Continue reading Officially “unstuck” →

Last month I wrote about feeling "stuck" and how books have always helped me get "unstuck." Not feeling sad, just blah. Just getting through each day without accomplishing much. My brain just needs more to do. I’m sick of my days consisting of Netflix, novels, naps, and knitting. I even posted on social media and … Continue reading Getting “unstuck” →

Before COVID and the shutdown of the world, I was happier being at home versus big social gatherings. It took my patient husband (and a lot of effort) to get me out of my comfort zone. I am kind of a weird introvert because when I feel comfortable in social situations, I am Chatty Kathy. … Continue reading Being social again →

Books have been super helpful in different ways throughout my adulthood. Just Mercy inspired me to become a Guardian ad Litem. A Big Little Life: A Memoir of a Joyful Dog Named Trixie inspired me to write and publish a book about my dog Smooch. There were two books helped me process the unexpected death … Continue reading Book therapy →

Last summer was the first time we were not at Wrightsville beach for Father's Day since the kids were toddlers. It is the husband's happy place, so we were super excited to get back there this summer. Since Appa is at doggie reform school, we decided to grab Bailey's Emotional Support Animal (ESA) ID and … Continue reading When the beach gives you lemons →

The fledge has started at our house, and I have mixed feelings about it. For now it is baby steps, but it is definitely happening. Last week I traded in my gas guzzling SUV because I no longer needed a giant car to transport kiddos. My oldest has been driving for almost 2 years now, … Continue reading The start of the fledge →

Yesterday I shared my daughter's first day of work. You might wonder why I would share something like that. I did because 1) I was proud of her for getting not one, but two jobs completely on her own 2) she signed up for a double shift her first day and 3) she started working … Continue reading The Firsts I’m allowed to document →

I feel like I write this blog post every year. I love my little family, and they love me every day, not just on Mother's Day. But every year for the past 6 years, Mother's Day means the Wednesday after Mother's Day is near. That is the day I watched my mom die in the … Continue reading When Mother’s Day is hard →